Should You Renovate or Move? A Practical Guide for Homeowners
Introduction:
If you’ve spent any time standing in your outdated kitchen, you’ve likely wondered, as so many other homeowners have, should I remodel this kitchen, or should I just move to a different house? It’s quite the conundrum, and one vote for sleepless nights can come from searching for houses on your computer, while the other vote will come from bookmarking ideas to remodel your kitchen.
The secret is there isn’t a right, wrong, or universal answer, but there is a way to get to a right answer for you, and it’s not simply glancing at costs on a calculator. The purpose of this discussion is to think about and solve the remodeling versus moving dilemma together, not just considering your checking and savings account balances, but considering your way of life, your dreams, and even your sanity.
The Financial Reality Check
Money speaks, and in the present circumstances, it is usually loud enough for everyone to hear. Renovating can feel like a steal until you’re three weeks deep into a project and over budget. The usual rule of thumb is if your renovation cost exceeds 20-30% of your home’s current value, you’d be better off moving. But that’s just a starting point.
Consider this: when you renovate, you are improving a property you already own, no realtor commission, no closing cost, no moving expenses. You’re not bidding against an unreasonable market and losing the house of your dreams to a cash buyer who waived inspection. That sense of reliability is valuable and not always reflected in a simple math equation.
When you move, you essentially have a predictable total cost. Once you have closed on the new house, you have certainty. But renovations are notorious for creating surprises behind walls; asbestos, old electrical wiring, structural damage, etc. That $50,000 kitchen remodel can quickly become a $75,000 kitchen remodel which requires you to solve problem after problem.
Location: The Deal-Breaker or Deal-Maker
This is where emotions and practicality intermingle. You’ll have the option to modify almost everything about a house: the layout, the finishes, and perhaps add square footage. But you cannot alter the address.
If you love your neighborhood, if your kids have found their friends at the local school, or if you’ve established some legitimate friendships over backyard fences, that’s not something you can duplicate by moving across town. The coffee shop where the barista knows your order, your walking path that you’ve memorized, and even your feeling of belonging, all of these things might tip the balance in favor of a renovation.
On the other hand, if you are drowning in a bad commute, if the neighborhood is declining, or if you’ve simply outgrown the community, then no amount of marble countertops is going to correct the routing issue with your situation. Sometimes you do need a fresh start in a location that better accommodates your current life, not the life you once had when you bought the property.
The Lifestyle Equation
Be truthful about the gap between how you actually live and the notion of how you should live. Is that basement home gym you’re dreaming about realistically going to be used, or is it going to be just as expensive storage as the treadmill in your bedroom? Renovation works effectively when the structural bones of your current home are good, but the details are not right.
Maybe you really need an open floor plan instead of all those closed off little rooms that are oh-so-outdated. Or maybe you feel desperate enough for an office after a few years of working from the table in your dining room. Renovation solves these problems beautifully.
Moving makes sense when your needs have really changed. When families grow, they need more bedrooms and bathrooms, not prettier versions of what they already have. An empty nester may be trying to maintain much more house than they want or need. If you are thinking about adding a second story or large addition to your house, again, you might want to really think about whether you were trying to make that one specific house into something it’s not.
The Disruption Factor
Let’s discuss something that few people warn you about – renovation is disruptive in ways that will test your patience, and possibly your marriage. If you live through a kitchen renovation, you’ll be washing your dishes in your bathroom, and eating takeout for weeks. Yes, your family is going to eat takeout for at least a week.
If you are renovating a bathroom, your mornings will degenerate into negotiations about who will get to use the only toilet that works. Some people thrive in this chaos, to them, they see a major renovation as an adventure. Others, like myself, find it genuinely distressing to have your home be a construction zone of dust and debris, the very space that’s meant to be a place of sanctuary or peace.
Know thyself. If you are someone who needs order and routine to function, a major renovation can be more emotionally taxing and costly than you realize. Moving comes with its own interruptions, surely. But the time frame is more compressed, and the chaos is intense but finite, you’re not living in a construction zone, you’re simply moving from one complete home to a new complete home.
The Emotional Investment
Quite simply, your home is special to you. The marks on the doorframe where your children used to chart their height, your beloved garden that you nourished and cultivated for years, the room where you brought home your baby. This means something to you. Renovating is not only about the home, it is also about honoring the life you have created in that home.
Emotion can also be a trap. Don’t do a renovation out of guilt, or love. Your house does not have feelings, even if you do. You can always sell if that is the most rational move for you. The memories you created there move with you. Memories are not built into the drywall.
Making Your Decision
First: Get real numbers. Talk to several construction companies about a renovation and use that number plus 20%, to account for surprises. Research within your real estate market, how much selling will cost, and how much similar homes would be priced that would address your needs. Next, draft out a timeline for each scenario.
Then step away from the numbers and ask some of the deeper questions. Where do I want to be in 5 years? What will my ideal day look like? Am I trying to resolve the problem of the house, or the problem of my life?
Conclusion:
Deciding whether to renovate or relocate really isn’t about houses, it’s about lives. It’s about what you really need, not what you think you should want. It’s about honestly evaluating your finances and your capacity for chaos and your hopes for the future.
Sometimes the answer is uncomplicated. More often, the answer is complicated and personal, and does not follow the advice of articles like this one. And that’s fine. The aim isn’t to choose what is objectively “best”, it is to choose what is the best fit for you, knowing what each option really means.
Whether changing your current house, or doing it in the context of a new house, either way, you aren’t making a real estate decision. You are making a decision for how you want to live in some combination of reality and dreams. And, that’s always worth considering one rational consideration and one dream at a time.
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